Neither Hot Stuff or I gravitate towards social situations. It is very easy for us to stay home and just hang out in a space we both feel loved and safe.
Take, for instance, our Tuesday Date Nights. For the past few weeks I have texted Hot Stuff this question during my lunch break.
“Wanna go to Mambo’s after work or eat fish sticks and watch zombies at home?” Mambo’s is a new restaurant in our neighborhood. We know if we go we will see neighbors and enjoy good food. Still, crowds, lines, etc…ugh.
“Fish sticks and zombies” Hot Stuff replies.
I smile and think “this is why I love this man.”
We are not called to stay isolated. God created us to be in community with one another.
Hebrews 10:24-25 And let us consider how we may spur one another on toward love and good deeds,
25 not giving up meeting together, as some are in the habit of doing, but encouraging one another—and all the more as you see the Day approaching.
The past few weeks we have been attending quite a few community gatherings. Our church has an annual labor day camping weekend. We almost bailed this year, but once we arrived, we had a blast.
We camped out in a cabin with campers from another church. We made new friends, had great discussions with new and old friends, dug into scripture fished, swam and ate way too much food. We both walked away with more scriptural grounding and a reminder that God is a good God and humans can be kinda cool when given a chance.
https://www.chapelhillumcsa.com/post/church-retreat-was-a-success
This weekend was followed by a Burgers and Bingo fundraiser for Kairos Prison Ministry. Once again. Great fellowship, catching up with old and new friends, good food, and a reminder that we are to continue loving all of God’s people. Which, just happens, to be everyone.
Last night was date night.. I sent Hot Stuff a text. “Let’s go to Mambo’s tonight.”
We did not implode. We had a fun time watching our neighbors, visiting with the staff. Eating good fish tacos. (not fishsticks) We will be returning frequently.
God is still working on us😉
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